Exploring Cesarean Birth

cesarean birth mom

“You chose to have a cesarean, why?” “Couldn’t that have been prevented?” “Was it really an emergency?”  If you are a person who has had a cesarean birth, you may have heard one or all of these kinds of questions regarding your birth experience. It’s possible that people are asking questions from a place of…

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Enneagram for Birth

pregnant mom holding coffee

Have you ever wondered how your personality type might affect the way that you birth? We thought it might be a little fun to take the Enneagram to the next level and explore what each of the types would look like in birth. Not sure what the  Enneagram  is? It’s an incredibly fun personality tool…

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How Do I Know If My Water Broke? (or if I just peed myself)

surprised woman

“Did my water break?” or “Did I pee myself?” If you’re pregnant, you might be wondering when your water might break, and how you will know. We get it! The anticipation of your water breaking is a real fear most first time parents.  TV tells us that your water breaking is how your labor will…

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The Hair Down There: Does My OB Care?

shaving razor on blue background

As your body changes during pregnancy, and your baby and belly grows there are parts of yourself you just cannot see anymore.  Ahem, your vagina to be more exact. Don’t be shocked if suddenly you can no longer see your vagina or bikini line once your belly has rounded out. This might make you feel…

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Monitoring Baby’s Heartrate During Labor

fetal heart monitor for labor at hospital birth

Labor is a fine balance. One of the best ways to know how your baby is doing during labor is through monitoring their heart rate. We want to see how your baby is handling each part of labor. This is that fine balance we talk about- making sure that baby is handling the birthing process…

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To the L&D Nurses

L&D Registered Nurse

Dear Labor and Delivery Nurses, We have some things we’d like to tell you. We don’t know 99.9% of you, but we do know the ones who work in our local hospitals. We’re going to take a leap and assume that all of you are at least somewhat similar to the nurses we’ve had the…

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Decision Making in Labor {Free Download}

woman in corn maze choosing path

“Tell your families to speak up! If we don’t know what they want, we can’t help them get the birth experience they’re hoping for.” Those words from a L&D nurse are important for you to hear. The nursing staff wants you to speak up. They want you to ask questions, to clarify, to PARTICIPATE in…

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I’m Dating My OB

Ob stethescope and blood pressure cuff

I like long walks in the hallway, firm hip squeezes, and gentle exams. Dear OB,  I’ve heard you have an opening on your schedule. I’ve also heard that you find my insurance coverage to be appealing. I’ve talked with others who had past relationships with you and I’m intrigued. I’m thinking it may be time…

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Will My Baby Fit?

pregnant belly with hands making heart shape

I am little.   I always have been. How little, you ask?  I’m 4’ 11” on a good day.   Men tell me they could bench press me with ease (I’m 100lbs even).  I buy my pants in the children’s section.  I’m not complaining about that last part though.  The pants are cheaper and they…

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